Each life is so individual. It is my belief that each life is designed to live the life meant for that person. In this way there is no need for judgment because what will fulfill one person will not fulfill the next. Each also has dreams that really only that person can understand and follow fully.
So as it comes down to the bottom line no person can live another person’s life. Though there may need to be time taken to understand things in a person’s life, unless it is against others, there is no need to decide whether it is unacceptable. It is acceptable for that person.
We really should not want to be like everyone else. We are too individual for that.